How all females just want a boyfriend to have and to hold. That women seek to confine men in a Alcatraz penile cell where their dick is controlled by her little pretty magic wand.
WAKE UP. These are changing times and where did the casual hook up and casual sex without questions go.
As a collegiate female I am too independent, too busy, and simply too free spirited to even want a boyfriend at the moment. When I text someone, I do not expect a reply because I know that people get scared quickly by my bluntness. Men, who at times behave like boys, confuse my blunt somewhat form of seductive ways into being a trap into monogamy when it's simply a more efficient and rather revealing way to do things.
I do not wish to sit around and depend on a man to maybe give me some feedback, and I am not mad at a guy or several, I am simply frustrated by the fact that for some reason, maybe cultural, most of all men (I hope it is not a universal characteristic) think that every single woman wants to be in a relationship with them and seeks that goal primarily when they hook up with someone.
Sometimes it may be just a connection due to chemistry where there is not much talking but still, behind in the guy's unconcious he will think that she is seeking ultimate monogamy. Yeah, who doesnt like a great boyfriend but trust me, there are so many men out there that are great lovers but not boyfriend material.
Yes I would like to meet someone nice one day and make pretty babies but look, I am in college, you are too, all that is far away at the moment. Seize the moment, this girl is not out to get you.
This stubborness in thinking is also rather egocentric as well. Who said that since I hook up with you, for example, I imagine a future full of dates and flowers and kisses and intoxicating romance, or anything out of you. Maybe I just think your cute and wanna kiss.
Girls do not expect that when boys hook up with them that they want to be in a relationship (though there are some guys that are relationship fiends, let's not forget to mention them). They presume that the male thinks they are good looking or that they like something about them that gives rise to the male pecker.
This is the kind of cultural double standard that is not talked about.
Who has ever discussed that men are afraid of females because they feel that they all seek to 'trap' them into a relationship.
Females are always on the search for a perfect mate, it's an instinct, but can't a girl have a little fun with compatible guys just for the joyride?
I say cut the crap, if you want someone go for it. You run the risk of coming on strongly but who has time to sit around and look at your lifeless phone and just feel the seconds stabbing you more when you anticipate a call, a text, or any sort of response.
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