Romance is a dream?

That old black magic called love?

When we look at our world today love seems to be only only prescribed drug for true happiness. Money doesn't seem to work, and well most of anything does not satisfy us.
When talking to my guyfriends (not boyfriends, because or else that could hint that I have some romantic affiliation with them), so when face to face with them and discussing broadly the topic of Love, not specifically because males are a little scared, either they desperately want a girlfriend to cherish and care for, or they only wish to fulfill their bodily needs, and a girlfriend sometimes just has to come with the package. People are so strange, why aren't there really guys in the middle?

This girl asked me the other day if I was a romantic well

- I listen to Frank Sinatra regularly and know the words, CHECK

- I took a quiz facebook saying I am a "Romantic Dreamer", CHECK

- I thrive for Cosmo and Seventeen date and romance suggestions, CHECK

- I love roses, CHECK

- I've never been in love or in a relationship, UNCHECK


Compared to her I was a newbie to romance in a certain way because shes the kind of gal that's perfect, with a beautiful face, gorgeous eyes, and popularity that is hard to ignore.
I answered a firm "Yes"
Why yes I am a romantic, just haven't been able to apply my romantic abilities on someone special, its different. She then asked me for a date idea (I've never been on a real date) for her 1 month anniversary for her and her boyfriend, I said a picnic by the water at night with candles and a blanket. Perfect date.
She loved it, but that still makes me tonight boyfriend-less while listening to Frank.
Life is complicated you guys, especially when your picky. But picky is good, it actually sometimes opens you up. Even though guys are somewhat jerks, well at least most of the ones I'm attracted to.


So the finalizing question is what makes a person a romantic, past successful relationships, or the knowledge you build when seeing "Love Actually" more times than you can remember?

This way to romantic 'Popular' boy

While listening to Taylor Swift, 

who I once detested because of her snobbishness, 

love her ONLY in the song "You Belong With Me" 

I wondered which sort of stature in High School the people who listened to this song were or are

Is it the 'popular' people who listen to it most?

Or the 'unpopular', 'geeks', 'weird girls', the ones who look at the ground while walking through the halls and wish their mum didn't drive them to school in a 1980s Dodge?

As I was thinking about this, is that probably the 'popular' girls (I hate classifications) are the ones that listen to this song the most because they have not been through somewhat 'social rejection' like other girls. The 'geeky girls' most likely do not believe in such a fairy tale even if the guy in the video is CALIENTE. I guess 'popular' girls even if they maybe have been rejected a couple times in their lives probably are more likely to secretly believe in such a fairy tale.

Let's not underestimate 'popular' people though, they probably go through some very harsh lives that not even their best friends know about, I've seen it before. But I'm talking about girls who are spoiled their whole lives, and even if nice, or not, even if they may have a somewhat lovely personality, or a couple good qualities, they are NOT grounded like those who would be a 'social failure' in their eyes.

Message to boys: Would such a thing as a hot popular guy falling in love with his 'geeky' neighbor unravel a note saying 'I LOVE YOU' at the same time with a girl when running into her at prom? (where she magically turned really pretty & hot & attractive & glowing)

Who is this? <3

Wait, who the f*** is Bilingual Brigitte?!
Debuting is blog is so new for me, so here's a little context...y'all

1. I make really bad jokes, I just throw them out there, sometimes people laugh, most of the time they don't ('Brigitte...Nooooo'). My recent really bad joke was when I saw Dana Carvey aka Garth from Wayne's World (one of the best movies of all time) and he asked me (I'm a hostess, thats for later)
Dana Carvey : 'So are there any birds on your patio??'
Me (nervous & starstruck) : 'Umm ya, and they can even come next to your plate if you want' (that's just one)
2. I was born in California, near San Francisco, but my dad is 'hella' French, and my mom is Dutch/Ar gentian so I speak French & English & a little lot of Spanish.
3. Some people say that I talk a lot, but then again, people use me as a non-awkward tool. I'm like a superhero in fixing awkward situations, but sometimes its just all bad.
4. I'm sort of unusual, but embrace it (what I can of it)
5. I love Frank Sinatra, with a passion, and I swear if I met a male my age that like him too, he would gain like 5 points on hotness level (this is out of 10)
6. I know a lot of random people, that's just how 'I roll', I've met many people from different countries and have lied many times about my age
7. I have a couple secrets like everyone, that's why I try to never underestimate anyone
8. I lived four years in France (life-changing experience) and made some life-long friends, and got my heartbroken
9. I currently go to a All American Public High School, I've been in Bilingual schools my whole life and I started in this system last year. I'm a Senior and the High School I go to is not normal
10. I've never had a boyfriend, that's just how it is, people think though that I'm a 'Nymphomaniac Fake French Slut That Gets Laid Every Weekend' negative
11. I love the top of Muffins & my Starbucks drinks are Cold; 'Iced Soy Chai' & Hot; 'White Chocolate Soy Mocha'
12. I have weird taste in guys, and believe in 'quality, not quantity', which explains a couple things...

I'll Probably add on as 'time goes by' but leave you with one question,
People don't normally find themselves unusual, but
Whats unusual with you?